Discussion Forums => Greetings => Topic started by: aysam on May 22, 2008, 05:00:45 AM
Title: two years old
Post by: aysam on May 22, 2008, 05:00:45 AM
:hugfriend i love you my son :hugfriend] aysam from mum
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: §ãJ¡Ð ساجد on May 22, 2008, 01:29:20 PM
Have a great birthday! (http://www.thunderguy.com/felixandjay/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/2.jpg) ~May you have many more to come!!~ :party :bigparty :party
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Canadian_Family on May 22, 2008, 01:48:40 PM
Hello,
It is not a sentence to life, remember children learn from the parents. We never talk about thalassemia around our children and we are never depressed in front of them. We enjoy every moment to the fullest smiling and laughing.
Best of luck and happy birthday Aysam.
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Sharmin on May 22, 2008, 04:04:24 PM
Happy Birthday Aysam!! :bigparty :congrats
Love, Sharmin
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Kathy11 on May 23, 2008, 12:44:16 AM
Happy Birthday Aysam May you enjoy many more birthdays to come
. :bigparty :bigparty :bigparty
Kathy
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: AL on May 23, 2008, 01:03:16 AM
YOU ALL ARE THE BEST PEOLPE I HAVENT MEET BEFORE WE REALLY APREITIATE AND LOVE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR AYSAM IT HONESTLY MADE ME CRY TO SEE THAT PEOLPE REALLY STILL HAVE HEARTS , ALL YOU GUYS I HAVENT EVER MEET AND HOW KIND YOU ALL ARE TO US PEOLPE I KNOW AND FREINDS AND FAMALIY DIDNT EVEN BOTHER TO EVEN VISIT AYSAM ONCE IN HOSTPITAL OR EVEN SAY HELLO WHY BECUSE HE IS SICK FROM WHEN I NEW MY SON WAS SICK I LOST MANY PEOLPE FAMLIY AND SUPPOSE TO BE FREINDS WHY ? I DONT KNOW I THINK KNOWNE WANT, TO GO NEAR HIM THEY ACCTULY THINK THAT THEY WILL CATCH THALASSEMIA , THATS HOW STUPID PEOLPE ARE U KNOW I WANT TO SHARE THIS EXPERINCE WITH U ALL I TOO AYSAM TO LEBAONON AND ON THE WAY THERE HE HAD NO SEAT SO HE SAT ON MY LAP WHILE I WAS SITTING IN BETWEEN TWO ON EACH SIDE ALL THE WAY THERE I ASKED A LADY WHO HAD FIVE KIDS I SAID PLEASE IM SORRY IS IT OK MY SON HE WANTS TO SLEEP CAN U OFFER ME A CHAIR BECUSE HE IS UNCOMFTORBAL SO HE CAN SLEEP U KNOW WHAT SHE SAID WHAT U WANT MY KIDS TO CATCH WAHT HE HAS VERY SAD TO THINK PEOLPE ARE LIKE THIS AND I HAD GIVEN UP BUT WHEN I SAW HOW ALL U GUYS REALLY CARED FOR LITTLE AYSAM U GAVE ME HOPE AND FAITH AGAIN THAT THERES STILL PREOLPE IN THIS WORLD WHO HAVE HEARTS THANKYOU :heartpink :heartpink :heartpink :heartpink :heartpink :heartpink :heartpink :heartpink
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Andy Battaglia on May 23, 2008, 04:29:43 AM
Please don't let stupid people get you down. Thalassemia is an inherited gene disorder and can't be caught from someone else. People can be so foolish and insensitive. You will find people here who do care and who will give you tons of support and advice. Some of the things you will have to do for your child will be hard but you can always find strength knowing that these are the things that will give him the chance to have a normal life. Complying with treatment is always necessary and you must always remember it is why there are thals alive in this world who are in their 50's and 60's. You can do your best for him and we are here to help as much as we can. There are many parents in this group who have been through everything you will be going through and they can give you the best advice.
Lisa would be really proud to see how her group embraces everyone who comes here. :happyyes
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Sharmin on May 23, 2008, 06:24:23 AM
The only thing anyone has to worry about 'catching' is a bad attitude - like that of the lady who was so cruel to you and our precious little Aysam. I'm so sorry that you have had to deal with such ignorance - some people take good health for granted - I think that is what allows them to judge other people.
I hope we can help rebuild your confidence and hope here. Like Andy said - we need to concentrate on the good things available to us - and the good people who are willing to help us:)
Take care,
Love, Sharmin
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Zaini on May 23, 2008, 12:05:07 PM
WOW!! what a big fool was that woman?
Aysum is really cute and adorable,give him a big wet kiss from me :hugfriend.
ZAINI.
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Lyanne on May 23, 2008, 03:35:44 PM
well said Andy and Sharmin...........
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: Canadian_Family on May 23, 2008, 06:43:02 PM
Knowledge is power, I remember when I was in grade 4 (now that I am going 40 soon) we had a classmate who needed blood transfusion from the age of 2 to 11 (I don't think it was thalassemia though) and few bullies targeted him for that.
Our teacher gave a project to bullies about the medical condition of that child. One week later, they came up with tears in their eyes and had great respect for the victim.
Thank you Miss Loyal for teaching us the lesson of our lives.
Title: Re: two years old
Post by: §ãJ¡Ð ساجد on May 24, 2008, 04:43:35 AM
Sadly there are people like that.
It's sad to hear the stories what parents say about taking their children off from school when even the educated teachers won't share lunch with Thals. and parents of other kids telling them to stay away from "Those kids" :mad
JSF does Psychiatric counseling of Thals. and their parents; but I think it's the rest of the people that needs it more badly. We need a massive awareness campaign to alter the mentality of the masses fast otherwise such incidents will keep on occurring.