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Remembering Our Friends => In Memory Of => Topic started by: Andy Battaglia on March 14, 2007, 02:14:02 AM

Title: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Andy Battaglia on March 14, 2007, 02:14:02 AM

With a very heavy heart I must inform this group of the passing of Stan Kastoras, husband of Miaki, and father to their son, on March 13, 2007 after a long battle with congestive heart failure.

Stan was a warrior in every sense of the word, battling thal as a champion. His iron will kept him going much longer than any doctors believed possible.

He will be sorely missed. Our hearts go out to his wife and son, and all his family and friends.

Miaki, we are here for you.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Christine Mary on March 14, 2007, 05:46:43 AM

NO!!!!!
not stan! maria, i am sooo sorry to hear this news. you and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.
stan was such an admirable person. from what ive heard of him, he was a leader, and a definite miracle with all that hes been through.
maria, please, if you need anything, dont hesitate to to ask.
again i am so sad, i dont know what to say???
we love you.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Danielle on March 14, 2007, 06:16:19 AM

I'm so terribly saddened by this news, Mia.  I'm so incredibly sorry.  :wah  I have no words to express how much sorrow I feel for you.  We are all here for you in any way we can possibly be.  You and your son will be in my prayers.   :( :hugfriend

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: §ãJ¡Ð ساجد on March 14, 2007, 07:01:19 AM

Oh dear....

I can't believe I am reading this. :quiver

Stan was a true warrior. He is an example for all of us to fight disease beyond our natural limits without giving up hope. He was a true soldier and his name will live on among us forever.

My heart goes out to his entire family and friends. :sorrow

Miaki, I know it is a very hard time upon you now, but you have to be strong and take extra care of yourself and your son.

May his soul have peace. :pray

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: sydneygirl on March 14, 2007, 09:54:21 AM

Sorry to hear of this news,my heart goes out to the family.I didnt know stan,but as a thal patient im saddened to hear of this terrible news.Keep strong miaki !

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Lyanne on March 14, 2007, 12:00:01 PM

Oh!  :whaat can't believe that. what a sad,sad news.............  :sorrow my condolence Miaki!

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: akka1981 on March 14, 2007, 03:22:36 PM

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY MIAKI TO U AND UR FAMILY.

Am shock to hear this sad news.Anyway your hubby was an example to all thals. He was a brave person afterall.

Tc of ur health.

V are always there for u dear.

Luv .tc

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Sharmin on March 14, 2007, 03:56:10 PM

My deepest sympathies to Stan's family.  I am deeply saddened to hear of this.
I had been praying for his recovery. 
Sharmin

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: akkro13 on March 14, 2007, 07:38:30 PM

 Miaki, we are very sorry to hear this about  you husband Stan!

Sincerely condoleance!

akkro2000

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Danielle on March 14, 2007, 08:14:45 PM

I'm so very sad about this.  I cannot stop thinking about it.  I cannot even imagine what Miaki and her son are going through.   :quiver

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: ThalGal on March 15, 2007, 01:18:22 AM

Stan was one of the first patients I meet at my very first TIF conference in NYC.  I remember he and his friend Bill were wearing cowboy hats!

I had the pleasure of meeting Maria when she and Stan came to the States for their honeymoon.  Through the years I have seen Maria, or Maria & Stan at the TIF conferences.  I am happy and proud to call them friends. 

Stan was a pioneer for all thal patients.  I will miss you Stan the Man!!!

My thoughts and prayers are with Maria & Theodore.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: jzd24 on March 15, 2007, 02:21:01 AM

I am so sorry to hear about Stan. My heart and love go out to you, Miaki, and to your son. I didn't know Stan, but I know he was very loved and respected. Love, Jean

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Zaini on March 15, 2007, 11:21:55 AM

hi,i m new member here,still i feel really sad about stan, i didn't know him,but my heart goes for him and his family,please will one of u old members kindly tell me about him?how old was he?where did he live?and how is his son?i'll be much grateful.
May his soul rest in heaven.
Ameen.
Zaini.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Siena on March 15, 2007, 11:30:28 AM

Dearest Miaki, I am overwhelmed with sadness from hearing about dear Stan's passing. I was on my way to visit you both in the ward on Tuesday the 13th after my transfusion but the phenergan I was given had totally taken over my senses and so I decided to turn around and head home. Today I found out that Stan had passed on that very day. I cannot believe it.....so very hard to comprehend. I am praying for you and Theodore. Stan was indeed a gentleman with a wicked sense of humour and will be SO missed by SO many.  He was courageous and an absolute inspiration to me. He will always be in my memory. Darling Maria, you are in my thoughts and in my prayers.....I wish I could say something to ease your pain

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Manal on March 15, 2007, 08:21:28 PM

I am reallly shocked , no words can describe how sad i am. I thought he will make it, but.....

Miaki, i know how you feel and i know that no words can ease your pains but be sure that this is much better for him. God always choose the best for us, it could have een worest.

I am thinking of you all the time, i am so sorry

Manal

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: ari on March 16, 2007, 01:29:17 PM

Stan was indeed a wonderful person who grabbed the bull by the horns and experienced life to the fullest when he could. He had the gift of the gab, a wonderful presence and a kind heart.

I will always remember his smile.

My sincerest sympathy to his family.

Theodore your father will always be with you watching you from heaven with every successful move you make. I'm sure you will make both your parents proud.

ari
xx

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Courtenay1826 on March 25, 2007, 05:30:22 AM

Miaki and Theodore (and all of Stan's family)-

Our sincerest condolences go out to you! From all I've heard, Stan was a wonderful man and father, and I grieve for you and hope that you know that we are here for you.   :wah

Hugs and love to you, from all of us.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Miaki on April 09, 2007, 03:01:23 PM

Hello to all

On behalf of my son and I, we would like to thank you all for your beautiful messages of love and support.

Stan was a wonderful husband, father, friend and more. He battled for many years with his Thalassaemia and various other health issues. However over the past almost 1.5 yrs he battled with his biggest enemy cancer.

Stan was a man of intelligence, pride and perfection.  He had a great life, achieved many goals and defied the odds. He truly was a remarkable person. Even in his last days he had many come to see him and he thanked them for being such great friends and it was an honor to have known them. Personally it was an honor to have known him.

I was blessed to have him as my soul mate. He has left me many memories too many to mention in fact, but the greatest gift he has left me was our beautiful son and the love we shared for each other. I don’t think anything can ever take that away from me, no matter how much time may pass.

Stan requested a song to be played at his funeral that he felt summed his journey of life to a tee. I share this with you.
I think for somebody to plan their own funeral ittakes alot of strenght and that Stan definately had.

My way by Frank Sinatra

And now, the end is near;
And so I face the final curtain.
My friend, I'll say it clear,
I'll state my case, of which I'm certain.

I've lived a life that's full.
I've traveled each and every  highway;
But more, much more than this,
I did it my way.

Regrets, I've had a few;
But then again, too few to mention.
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exemption.

I planned each charted course;
Each careful step along the byway,
But more, much more than this,
I did it my way.

Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew.
But through it all, when there was doubt,
I ate it up and spat it out.
I faced it all and I stood tall;
And did it my way.

I've loved, I've laughed and cried.
I've had my fill; my share of losing.
And now, as tears subside,
I find it all so amusing.

To think I did all that;
And may I say - not in a shy way,
"No, oh no not me,
I did it my way".

For what is a man, what has he got?
If not himself, then he has naught.
To say the things he truly feels;
And not the words of one who kneels.
The record shows I took the blows -
And did it my way!

Rest in peace sweetheart,
Wherever a beautiful soul has been there is a trail of beautiful memories
Eternally yours , Maria (Miaki)

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Zaini on April 09, 2007, 06:27:19 PM

Oh Miaki,,

My heart goes for you,,i  can't explain what i am feeling,that was a beautiful song too,perfect for him,i never knew him personally,but still,,i just can't tell you what i am feeling,,i am extremly sorry for ur loss miaki,i know my words can't comfort you,i wish i was able to do some more,may his soul rest in peace forever,and remember that we all love you,give my love to theodore, :hugfriend :hugfriend :hugfriend :hugfriend

ZAINI.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Manal on April 09, 2007, 09:41:25 PM

I am really so touched, i really need to express my feelings but find it hard in english.

All what i can say that i am really proud that i participted in one of the posts Stan answered i wish i had known him. But i am sure that Miaki and Theodore are the continuation of his spirit, beliefs, honor,.............

Manal

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Kathy11 on April 09, 2007, 10:42:06 PM

Dear Miaki,
I'm so sorry, for you lost I really don't know what to say to you at this time.It must be very hard ,but I do wish you courage ,strength and most of all I do wish you remember the goodtimes and memories you shared with your husband in the hope it will see you through your grief.
we don't know why but we have to belief that god has a plan and your lost was part of his planned.
All this time I thought Stan got better after his surgery.
I must have missed the posting about his death, sorry,   I am so sorry.
All my love to you and your son I can't comprehand your pain but I will pray that you hurt less everyday. :hugfriend
Kathy

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: §ãJ¡Ð ساجد on April 10, 2007, 06:00:36 AM

This poem reflects truly what a brave soldier Stan was.

May he rest in peace  :sorrow

Miaki, you will always have Stan with you spiritually and physically in form of Theodore. He will grow up to be as brave as Stan if you stay brave with him.

Take care of your self and your little soldier.

Hugs to Theodore (Stan Junior) :hugfriend

Peace!

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Miaki on July 12, 2007, 04:11:43 PM

Four months dearly missed but never forgotten

STAN, my darling, I loved you with a full heart,
the day you quietly slipped away you tore my soul apart,
but it was not your fault, it was your time to go.
All the tears I shed for you now would never fill the sea,
But an ocean is not as deep as the love I shall always carry for you,
I remember the precious times we had so very many together,
Our hearts and love are forever,
 
But I knew from the land of living sweet heart, I knew you had to go
You deserved your dignity in your goodbye,
I saw the love in your eyes before your spirit set free,

We shall meet again,
But never the less I have to endure the pain....
of knowing that you are free
I know that you are waiting for me
Where once again for all eternity be free forever.

Miss you , Love you for all eternity your family.  xoxoxoxo

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Andy Battaglia on July 12, 2007, 04:13:02 PM

Miaki,

Thanks for sharing.  :hugfriend

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Manal on July 12, 2007, 09:58:22 PM

May God give you the strength till you meet again with Stan :hugfriend :hugfriend

Manal

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Kathy11 on July 13, 2007, 12:06:46 AM

Hi Miaki,
In reading your post. reassured me that you are coping the best you can.
I wish you all the strength and clarity you need.
Thank-you for sharing, it nice to know .
My love to you and your son.
Always
Kathy :flowers

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Danielle on July 13, 2007, 01:55:54 AM

Miaki, that was so beautiful!  :wah  Thank you for sharing that with us.   :hugfriend

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Lyanne on July 13, 2007, 04:21:56 AM

Hi, Miaki! that's so nice, it's very touching. I do hope you're doing fine always. Take care!

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: §ãJ¡Ð ساجد on July 13, 2007, 05:06:41 AM

:quiver

That is so sweet

Wish you and your son all the best for the future

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: ThalGal on July 19, 2007, 05:39:30 PM

That is beautiful!!  Thank you for sharing!!

:bighug :bighug :bighug :bighug

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Waleed on March 13, 2008, 08:19:48 PM

I'm shocked really. cant say anything. really depressed. He actually has started his real life by now. Be a strong woman. Every 1 has to die, wut matters is how they lived. We all miss hiim. ive hep c ad last time i checked it out it was inactive but its a long time ago.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Miaki on March 13, 2008, 11:15:08 PM

In loving memory of my beloved Stan
13 03 2007

When you went away our world turned to grey without the sunshine of your smile.
All seems dark without the light from the twinkle of your eye.
Our heart is heavy without the sound of your laughter and the touch of your sweet voice.
Lets all smile and celebrate your  life for knowing you had a good one full of love, laughter, good friends and afamily and that you will be waiting fur us were, we will all be together for eternity one day.
Rest in peace honey,  dearly missed but never forgotten.

 

:candle :sorrow

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Sharmin on March 13, 2008, 11:25:06 PM

I wish you and your family strength to get through this day. 
 :sorrow

Love,
Sharmin

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Andy Battaglia on March 14, 2008, 12:52:58 AM

Miaki,

No words can do justice to express how we feel. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your son. May God bless you and watch over you.

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Manal on March 14, 2008, 02:14:48 AM

Miaki, my heart feels for you, may his soul rest in peace. :sorrow :sorrow

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Danielle on March 14, 2008, 07:21:23 AM

Miaki, I pray that you gain more strength each and every day, and that your memories of Stan bring more happiness than pain.  We are always here for you. May Stan rest in peace and watch over you always. :hugfriend

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Smurfette on March 15, 2008, 12:22:49 PM

Mia a year has passed already.. :(

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: §ãJ¡Ð ساجد on March 15, 2008, 12:31:08 PM

Time waits for no one. I wish if only we could manipulate time somehow.

May Stan rest in peace! :sorrow

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: sydneygirl on March 16, 2008, 09:52:03 AM

thinking of you miaki at this time,sorry i never knew stan personally,you are in my thoughts& prayers.take care :)

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Bharat on March 17, 2008, 02:38:29 PM

Thinking of you and your son.

 :candle

Take care
Bharat

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: priya on March 19, 2008, 03:03:10 AM

My heart feels for you and your son.

 :sorrow

Love Always

Dimple

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Miaki on August 01, 2008, 11:11:54 AM

You left me, sweet, two legacies,

A legacy of love

A Heavenly Father would content,

Had He the offer of;


You left me boundaries of pain

Capacious as the sea,

Between eternity and time,


Missing you

Title: Re: Stan Kastoras A Warrior
Post by: Sharmin on August 05, 2008, 06:01:51 AM

Maiki,

I am so sorry that your beloved is no longer with you.  Although I believe that in some form he will always be with you.  His presence is giving you the strength to keep being who you are.