Aubrey is so blessed you are becoming a care expert for her.  This site gives people the ability to understand.  I do not know anything about the issue your daughter has, but, since you speak of how difficult this is, I want to encourage you.  When I was diagnosed a fairly grim picture was painted for my future.  In the 35 years since, I have found doctors to be wrong, much more than they are right.  Please keep confident that in educating yourself like this you can make a HUGE difference in your daughters life.  And, make sure she always knows she can do whatever she wants.  Best wishes to both of you, OldThalGal