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I feel i have reached the end of my road.....
Lena:
Umair,
I have now seen your posts in detail. What are you talking about? you said it by yourself: your health is at its best now. Isn't this a blessing? You achieved your goal and you'll succeed further on.
Maha is right, you should find something to occupy yourself instead of constantly thinking of thal. Get a job, go out, socialise, get new friends, new interests...DO SOMETHING! LIVE YOUR LIFE!
This is what you need right now. Everything else gets under control.
Lena.
Emby:
brother umair,
please be strong....please find your inner strength.....
brother umair one thing we have absolute guarantee on when we are born......death. we all have to die one day.....meanwhile we have to live. in what ever condition we are in we must try to make the best of it. our health...we can improve it..our lives...we can't change the past but we can shape our future..our sicknesses..we have to learn to live with it..deal with it..manage it.
death is there....a 100% guarantee....everyone is fighting their fears...their inner demons...but move that demon out of the way...find that 'sakina'...find the sukoon..inner peace..and dear brother....live your life....
emby
nice friend:
1st of all i want to mention that i m not affraid ofdeath i m just worried about how to live the life ... i was thinking about the way to spend life , i never been affraid of death in my whole life.
@ lena, yeah, its a blessing that everything is fine now , yeah mayb i have alot time to think thats why this happened ...
--- Quote ---Remember an idle mind is a devils workshop
--- End quote ---
i thnk it's the main reasonof all this ... i will start doing sumthing really soon .. Thanx alot :) for encouragement :)
@ Emby ,
as i mentioned abovie i never been affraid of death and m not affraid of death now too , but never pray for that too bcoze that come's under the mourn'nes which is not good , so its not my prob .. probleme is to live until the time come's up :teehee just kidiing , it was a bad patch , i was surrounded by bad thoughts and i behaved like a "dramay baaz " ... Thanx alot sis, i dont know why i behave like a"dramay baaz" time to time, i m sure it wil happen again , but not in soon future , you have to wait for a few months for the next story ( coming soon but not very soon :P ) .... Thanx for ur support sis , that made me feel better .... thanx alot for taking time to reply this weird thread ... lots of Best Regards for your Kids :) ....
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i think i have to live the life as life want me to live it, i think i have to stop thinking and start living the life now, it will b better not to think and just to live it, i will try to live like i want, i will never think of give up again and cant think this as well, bcoze i have experienced the give up scene , that took me on wheelchair and that took my 2 years of my life, it took a long time to come back in life from that condition, i will live my life and will keep trying for good, i dont wana see in my past that is a harsh reality but i dont know what why and how that happened and won't to know as well ...
it define's this moment ver well
[bgcolor=#ffff00]Sometimes , God breaks our spirit to save our soul.[/bgcolor]
[bgcolor=#ffff00]Sometimes , He breaks our heart to make us whole.[/bgcolor]
Sometimes , He sends us pain so we can be stronger.
[bgcolor=#ffff00]Sometimes , He sends us failure so we can be humble.[/bgcolor]
Sometimes , He sends us illness so we can take better care of our selves.
[bgcolor=#ffff00]Sometimes , He takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything we have[/bgcolor]
i dont know why i didn't see the message of my own signature ... dot wana say anything more. ...i dont know why i was thinking like that .... i never been like that NEVER , and i there r lots of people who canconfirm this that i neer been like that since i m here on forum ... Thanx alot for bein there to make me feel fine and to help me get out of this , and to help me to be like old umair ...
i dont have any habbit of proof reading and reading post after writting and readin post bfore posting ..so , if you find sumthing upside down in this post or anything that is not good then dont hesitate to inform me , i will edit my post :grin ....
Best Regards
Take CAre
Umair
Manal:
Umair
I am happy that you feel much better now and i too agree that the lack of a goal in your life is behind all those negative thoughts. I am sure now it will be more easy to set a plan for your life since you know what you need.
One more thing i want to mention. Don't ever get upset when doing mistakes, it is a way by which you learn the right way. We all make mistakes.
In the past, Thomas Edison invented something after 8000 trails and after his achievemnts he didn'y say i did 8000 mistakes but rather said "Well, at least we know eight thousand things that don't work."
manal
nice friend:
--- Quote from: Dore on May 21, 2009, 01:50:28 PM ---Off topic:
I hope you don't mind I am posting this en public.
Umair, you are always positive. How do you do that? I mean you never really post here something that is written in a depression mood (like I do). I can not really express this feeling into words. But I guess you know what I am trying to say.
I am curious about the way you do that.
Note: Other members from this community have this positive (or optimistic) way of life was well.
--- End quote ---
Look Dore , read the my posts of this thread i sent above :grin ..
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i was looking like an angel and more blessed thal than otherz thalz ..... llike i m one who dont have any worries and facing nothing that can break confidence , i feel down too as other people, although it took long time to say that i face the worries probs and other this kind of things but i think its enough to prove, i dont wanted to post like i posteed above but i did to tell that i feel ups n downs but it doesn't matter, the thing that matter is if i can cop witht these ups n downs or not , that's wat this forum is for, to make you feel better when you feel down , to teach you how to get up and starting walking with life ... nobody is perfect and nobody is in-complete as well , its all about how finely we can discover our self our confidence our strangth and our abilities to survive , all wat we have to do is that we have to do is to find our inner self's strangth , we have to find wat else GOD has given us and wat kind of strength He blessed us with to survive in this world , all we need to have to find a solution instead off stop moving forward and crying that i dont know wat to do , thats wat i have learned ... i had to proof that i expereince the ups and downs of life as well as others do :grin m not a superman like sumthing, all i do is to deal with it a smiley face :) ... ii think m over-reeacting and all is fine now so NO more comment to my side ... :teehee
for the people who think that nice friend is a computer generated greeter who greet's people and always post something positive , nice friend is a human like you , who always keep trying to not to say anything that cause de-moralisation for other members , but it was necessory to say this all to tell you people that nice friend is a human like you who is also facing lots of probleme he is not someone who is blessed more than you , all that he do is he controle posting anything that he think dis-couraging .... but this time he did this to show that he is going trough the samething things u people do , he's on same way with same probleme , my way of thinking is still the same " dont think about the thing you cant change , and dont cry for anything if you cant fix that , live happy , stay happy, and always b happy in every condition you're livving " ... i think i have to keep making mistakes to assure new comers that m not computer m a human who is sending them greeting messages :grin :grin ....
@ Manal ,
Thanx Sis, for reallly encouraging quote, encouragement and support that you provide to help get out of this :thankyou2 ... :)
@ all thalpalz
i reallly appreciate all thalpals supporting messages who made me feel better and taught me not to feel bad and get up and get going , n start geting ride over bad patches ... Thanx alot you all , you're really good palz ...
i hope i didn't say anything again n again int his post and nothing that you can say wrong ... but if you find anything in this plz send me PM i will correct that , and plz when-ever you find anything in my any post then dont hesitate and feel free to inform me i will never mind, infact i will appreciate that if you help me finding out my mistakes bcoze i mm bad at proof reading and re-checking posts , i needd your help in this , plz help :)
Best Regards
Take Care
Umair :) :whew its a dificult task to Save ur reputation :whew
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