Kevin,
Reading this post and will post some random thoughts that pertain to me. :-)
Symptomatic thal minor.
Almost always tired.
Low immunity - sick often.
VERY prone to migraines - due to exhaustion, stress, sunlight, bright lights, loud sounds, strong smells, low hemoglobin, stomach upsets/irritable bowels (either consti or diarrhea), eye strain, muscle spasms at the back or my neck/shoulders, being very hungry :-) , and other causes that i cant remember right now. :-)
I also am gluten intolerant, and i'm not sure if its an autoimmune issue that switched itself on when I was very stressed for several years.
Due to the low immunity I get infections often, with unexplained symptoms that are worse at night, my blood pressure is either normal or very low, and i dont know how many of these things are related. :-) Soemtimes at night i'm awake and in discomfort, and i find i need to rub my arms and hands - and i dont even know why. On one such occassion, after ten days of this, i took antibiotics and next morning onwards I had turned into superwoman. (For a few days only).
I will admit the stress can cause migraines and the irritable bowels, and the low bp, and everything else. But I also know it is not the ONLY cause.
Sometimes I have a very rough time struggling with everything, but there is no discomfort, either in my head or my tummy or anywhere else.
:-)
At times i feel very warm when no one else does, and when its even slightly cold, i feel very cold.
Now - i attribute ALL these problems to my thal minor, till i am proven otherwise. :-)
Oh yeah, i also had to go through the trip where the doctors think i'm depresssed/nuts/hypochondriac/bipolar/etc etc. They would expect antidepressants will CURE everything i complained about.
Apparently it is also considered abnormal to be sad after one's mother passes away. I went through that several years ago, and no one cared about my actual medical problems since it was attributed to my grief.
Life is such, but like i said earlier, Smile even when you cant. It works wonders. Read funny books, watch funny movies, if you have loving friends, poke some caring humour at them too. I think it all releases happy hormones that help your body heal.
Each time i get a bad thought in mind, i quickly change the topic (in my mind). On really stressful days i work at Sudoku. :-) Some of the puzzles are so tough i forget what i was worrying about.
I dont say its easy at all. But i try. And yes, I smile all the time now. :-)
Regards.